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They don't ruin lives or break too many hearts. They merely shag.

"Forget monogamy and just shag" - One scientific theory on relationships: "So it’s suffice to say that perhaps those “commitment phobic” gents (who many women call "Players") of the modern era are in fact not all that bad.

Perhaps they're doing the women they flee from a service by being upfront and honest from the start.

They don't ruin lives or break too many hearts. They merely shag.  "

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Carnal Sex

"Forget monogamy and just shag" - One scientific theory on relationships: "“Rather than marrying 20 times or more in one's life via serial monogamy, we can keep one emotional lover and just have casual, meaningless - and hot - sex with strangers. This gives us the long-term emotional stability we desire psychologically, alongside the hot, carnal sex we desire somatically.”"

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"Forget monogamy and just shag" - One scientific theory on relationships

"Forget monogamy and just shag" - One scientific theory on relationships:
So bellowed the heading from a story in TNT Magazine the other day, advising us to ditch monogamy and embrace free love instead.

The article cites the latest work of Eric Anderson, a sociologist at England’s University of Winchester and author of the new book"

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Forget about monogamy shag as much as you can

“Forget about monogamy – shag as much as you can!”

So bellowed the heading from a story in TNT Magazine the other day, advising us to ditch monogamy and embrace free love instead.

The article cites the latest work of Eric Anderson, a sociologist at England’s University of Winchester and author of the new

book

TheVine - The Slut Threshold - Life & pop culture, untangled

TheVine - The Slut Threshold - Life & pop culture, untangled: "We live in a largely secular society. The people who think premarital sex will send them to hell (and there are still plenty) abstain, get married young, or make heated confessions post slip-up, meanwhile everyone else has adopted freer standards. It used to be that the rules of sexuality – for women – were fixed a 'don't'. ‘No sex before marriage’ is unrealistic and controlling, but it strips women of their agency in a way that some can find relieving. One doesn’t have to wrestle quite so hard with the complexities of desire and the ethical treatment of others when the answer is always ‘no’. Trying to numerically quantify ‘sluttiness’ is simply moving the goal-posts of virginity back a few paces. It still implies that every new sexual encounter you have leaves you a little more degraded or diminished, and that each one is an indelible mark on your name, just with a wider margin of error."

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TheVine - The Slut Threshold - Life & pop culture, untangled

TheVine - The Slut Threshold - Life & pop culture, untangled: "Twenty, it seems, is the sluttiest number. It was the number used in terrible yet compelling 2011 rom-com What’s Your Number, it’s the number 32% of Australian AskMen readers think makes a woman “sexually promiscuous”, and in a study last week, it was the number boffins at Cornell University used as their promiscuity bench-mark for college-aged women.

It’s also a number that, to me, seemed pretty low to cast judgement on, especially if you’ve been sexually active for several years. Twenty is, after all, only two regrettable one night stands, and two good ones; five short-term relationships; four long-term relationships; one hilarious high school threesome; a cheeky fling and three hook-ups with friends. If you became sexually active at 16, and had at least a handful of months where you didn’t have a full-time job, it doesn’t seem unfathomable that you could hit that target by 22 without even trying. If you’re 26 years old, and lost your v-plates the year you became legal, 20 is only two people a year."

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